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Misbehaving Cats Need Schooling

By Tracy Libby

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Spraying urine, avoiding the cat box and clawing furniture are just a few kitty behaviors that can grate on the nerves of even the most fervent feline admirers. While these actions make perfect sense to cats, some owners are convinced their cat isn’t normal. Others go so far as to think their wayward pet is rebelling or misbehaving out of spite. Perhaps, in frustrated moments, you’ve felt that way, too. What you may not realize is that you could inadvertently be the cause of your cat’s reform-school behaviors.

If your cat’s extracurricular activities are causing it to wear out its welcome, don’t despair. Nearly all cat behaviors -- even the most exasperating ones -- are predictable and easily remedied. The key to solving problem behaviors is to see the world through the eyes of your cat, according to animal behavior consultant Pamela Johnson-Bennett, who was certified in Nashville, Tenn., and is the author of Psycho Kitty, Tips For Solving Your Cat’s Crazy Behavior (Celestial Arts). “You can’t truly correct a behavior problem until you discover the cause,” she says, adding that most unwanted behaviors are only problematic to you and not your pet.

Why Cats Do What They Do
A cat’s actions, big or small, can be grouped into two categories: behavioral and medical. According to cat expert Rolan Tripp, DVM, founder of AnimalBehavior online, behaviors related to medical issues can stem from problems such as painful urinary tract infections, diabetes or renal disease. Getting to the litter box in time can be a problem for some of these cats, and accidents outside the litter box are not uncommon. A trip to the veterinarian will rule out any health problems.

If your kitty receives a clean bill of health, it’s time to do your homework because one or more of the following behavioral issues may be the root cause:

  • Stress Any seemingly harmless event, such as a neighborhood cat wandering in your yard or a new person or pet in the house, can stress a cat. “How cats cope with stress depends on the cat’s genetic makeup,” says Dr. Tripp. “If you have three cats with identical types of stress, one cat might spray urine, one might scratch furniture and one might rub its cheek on something.”
  • Boredom Scratching furniture or unraveling toilet paper rolls throughout the house can be the result of an under-exercised brain. Cat trees with hiding spots, cat perches and shelves will enrich your cat’s environment. Treats or toys hidden around the house so your cat can hunt them down will provide mental and physical stimulation while you are gone. Also try providing puzzle feeders, boxes and paper bags for your cat to explore.
  • Lack of training Cats are smart, but many need to be schooled in how to use a litter box or scratch appropriate objects. Cats don’t understand punishment, so positive association is the key. If a cat doesn’t get that it needs to use a cat box, and it potties on the carpet, blot the area with a paper towel. Then place both the paper towel and your cat in its litter box so your pet will make the association. To encourage your cat to scratch its post, sprinkle the scratching post with catnip, or hang fun, enticing toys or treats on the post. Reward with verbal and physical praise when your cat does as it should.

Tackling Three Common Kitty Misbehaviors
Like dogs and kids, cats are not immune to naughty behaviors. A refresher course in good feline behavior may be warranted if your cat engages in any of these three very common activities:

Spraying Urine
Many owners complain that their cats spray urine, which is also known as marking. Un-neutered males are the worst offenders, followed closely by un-spayed females in season. Any perceived threat, environmental change or stress can also cause cats to spray urine, especially if they haven’t been fixed. Since marking is a natural behavior, experts suggest these steps for redirecting your cat’s instincts:

  • Have your cat examined by your veterinarian to eliminate any medical issues.
  • Neuter or spay your cat, which, according to experts, will solve the problem in 90 percent of the cases when the cat is fixed before sexual maturity has been attained. That occurs at about six months of age.
  • Identify and remove, if possible, the underlying stimulus that is triggering the spraying. For instance, tension among sibling cats may require that each cat be relegated to separate living spaces for a day or more, with a litter box in each area. If your cat is spraying because neighborhood cats are wandering into its yard, momentarily block the view by pulling the drapes, provided your cat doesn’t show any interest in climbing or clawing them. An alternative is to block the view at certain times with a piece of cardboard or another opaque material.
  • Thoroughly clean the soiled area with an appropriate enzymatic cleaner, and when dry, temporarily cover the area to prevent the cat from returning to the scene of the crime.
  • Provide your cat with a scratching post to help relieve its stress.

Scratching Doors, Walls and Furniture
Cats scratch to groom their front claws, stretch their back and shoulder muscles, relieve stress and leave visual and olfactory markers of their presence. If your cat has picked up this destructive, albeit normal, behavior, experts suggest these strategies:

  • Buy or build an appropriate scratching post, which may be horizontal or vertical and can be covered in carpet, wood or sisal rope. Most cats prefer wood or sisal rope, but you may need to do a bit of experimenting to figure out which one your kitty prefers.
  • Entice your cat to scratch its post by, as Johnson-Bennett suggests, putting your cat’s scent on the post. To do this, place a pair of socks on your hands and rub your cat gently around its face. Distribute those facial scents on the new scratching post by rubbing it all over with the socks.
  • Play with your cat around its new post, which will stimulate interest in it and guarantee that a claw or two will find its way onto the scratching post. Once your cat gets a feel for its new scratching post, it will want to scratch it rather than your furniture.
  • Cover the area you wish to protect, such as the cat’s favorite scratch spot on a sofa, with double stick tape. Cats dislike the feel of sticky tape on their paws and should learn to avoid the area.
  • Place the scratching post in a central location near areas favored by your cat, such as windows or sleeping areas, since cats often stretch and scratch upon awakening. If possible, also try placing it close to the area where your cat has been scratching.

Urinating Outside the Cat Box
If your cat is relieving itself anywhere and everywhere but its litter box, experts recommend these problem-solving tips:

  • Clean the box regularly That involves scooping it at least twice daily. “The No. 1 reason cats potty outside the box is that the litter box needs to be cleaned more often,” says animal behaviorist Sophia Yin, DVM, who is based in San Francisco, Calif.
  • Get one litter box per feline Households should have more boxes than cats. Simple mathematics provides the solution, which, according to Dr. Yin, equates to the number of cats + 1= the number of litter boxes needed. For multiple cat households, boxes should be placed in various parts of the house, rather than lined up in a row in one location.
  • Check the location It should be in a safe, easily accessible spot with minimum traffic and noise and plenty of privacy. The location, be it a quiet laundry room, basement or spare bathroom, depends on your cat. A cat that spends the majority of its time upstairs may find your bedroom carpet more convenient than trekking down two flights of stairs to the basement. Ideally, there should be a litter box on each floor of the house.
  • Check the structure Cats tend to dislike litter boxes with hoods or covers. Cats also like big litter boxes. If traditional cat boxes aren’t big enough, use a plastic storage container with low sides and more room.
  • Check the litter Many cats have an aversion or preference for different types of litter. Some cats like a scoopable litter as opposed to clay or pellets. Some cats find scented litter offensive. If necessary, experiment by filling three or four litter boxes with different types of litter. Your cat will let you know which one it prefers.

When All Else Fails, Seek Professional Help
If these lesson plans fail to give your cat a passing grade, don’t be embarrassed to call in the professionals. Some ingrained habits may require the skills of a Dr. Doolittle type of cat behaviorist, located through veterinarians, online and yellow page searches or word of mouth. Cat experts frequently work in conjunction with veterinarians to provide the best and most current information and therapies, which can include medications, if necessary. Before you say, “Pass the catnip,” your furry friend’s reform-school behaviors will be a thing of the past, and you and your pet will once again be purring together.

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Cat Peeing On Furniture No UTI

3 yr female we adopted.Spayed. Pees on new furniture, repeatly. Cat box one for each cat, cleaned daily. No UTI. Can't get smell out of the leather furniture.Can't get Kitty to stop the behavior. Im am totaly stressed about thie. Advise please?

Posted by Stressed on 2008-08-17 at 19:37:21

my devil cat

I have a 7 month old kitten. She attacks my hands and thinks the bed is hers. I have to lock in her in the bathroom and night when I go to sleep or else she will take over the bed, crawl on me, purr loudly in my ear and play with my hair. She won't let me sleep. I have tried spraying her with water as a training method so she will stop, but she likes the water and I hate locking her up in the bathroom as I think it's cruel but I have no other choice. Is there anything else I can do? By the way please don't suggest crate training. I tried that to; it did not work.

Posted by ellie on 2008-08-20 at 08:40:57

Responses

I'm not a vet and I definitely recommend asking yours for advice or checking out a good cat book from the library, but for "ellie," I would definitely say that your very young cat is really lonely. She's naturally up at night and looking for companionship. You might try a nice long play session before bed and see if you can wear her out. In fact, try to exercise her every chance you get. That's half the battle with kittens, especially if they're alone during the day. Use one of those kitten glove toys to keep her away from your hands. if she's ever rough with them, you need to ignore her and stop playing so that she gets the message that the game ends when she gets rough. You might also make a loud, yelping ow noise so she gets it. A fellow cat would do the same. If you don't want to sleep with her you can set up a really nice bed for her somewhere else. Make it a really happy, cozy place with catnip and stuff and after your play session, try petting and soothing here there. You're at the tough stage because she's young and still learning how to navigate. She'll grow out of some of this stuff. Be consistent! Be patient! It will pay off forever if you work at it now. Good luck!

Posted by KD on 2008-08-20 at 15:43:52

Biting

I have never had a cat that would bite. The cat is have now is 5 months old and always reaches for my hands and bites. Is this normal for kittens? Are they just playing? And how do I stop this action? I don't want my grandchildren to get hurt.

Posted by Joan Walker on 2008-08-20 at 16:10:41

litter box issues

would there be a reason why a kitten of perfect health only poo in the box but always find something else to pee in or on? bed, rug, behind tv. i have 3 adults also and everyone is getting along fine. the pee issue is only her.

Posted by Missy on 2008-08-23 at 15:30:15

Joan Walker/Biting

Dear Joan, When you say "bites" is it just playful "love nibbles" or does you kitten grab on/latch on and does the "rabbit kicks" with it's hind feet and actually breaks the skin? You can redirect your cat's behavior by not allowing it to play with your bare hands...you can use a toy called "the kitten mitten" which is sold at most Petco/PetSmart stores that covers your hand and upper arm so you can play with kitty and not get bit/scratched. If kitty goes for the bare hands/arms, you can distract it with a loud noise, or other toys in your hand, but you want to discourage the contact with the bare hands/arms. Other more aggressive ways to stop the behavior would include looking kitty in the eye and firmly saying "NO" while you slowly take your hand away, using a spray bottle with water, or the sound of compressed air when sprayed often startles cats out of unwanted behavior, the cans of compressed air that you would use to clean your computer keyboard with. This has worked the best with my 5 year-old cat and her biting behavior.

Posted by Lisa Wong on 2008-09-03 at 23:08:06

Cat Peeing

Dear Stressed: You said there is a cat box for each cat...how many cats do you have? Maybe the resident cat is bullying the new cat and the new cat is stressed out as well. She is trying to mark out some territory for herself. As for getting the smell out of your furniture, Petco/PetSmart sell a detergent/cleaner that breaks down the compounds in cat urine to eliminate the smell/stains. How long ago was the cat adopted? What were the conditions like at the shelter? Did this cat have any behavior problems? Why was this cat up for adoption in the first place? Possible food allergies? Possibly doesn't like the brand of litter you use? If you already ruled out any medical/physical causes, it's time to take the cat to the vet and address emotional/behavioral issues.

Posted by Lisa Wong on 2008-09-03 at 23:16:15

Clawing my legs!

Someone thought it'd be funny to have one of the kittens climb up their leg while they wore jeans. Now the kittens think it's perfectly fine to claw up my legs regardless of what I am wearing at any moment. My legs are torn to shreds and I'm nearing the limit of my patience. Any ideas or advice to reteach these cats to not do that would save their lives as I'm about to take them to the animal shelter if I can't end this nonsense.

Posted by Baron on 2008-09-04 at 00:19:58

Feisty Kitten

I have an 8 wk old kitten who is just feisty as ever!!!! She doesn't like to be touched or handled and she is not lovey at all. The only time she tolerates being touched is in the morning when she first wakes up or at night when it's time for bed. She will follow us around the house at both of these times and meow her lil head off, but when we pick her up she freaks and claws her way out of our hands. What is going on and is it normal???

Posted by Tami on 2008-09-04 at 02:46:09

growling feline

Occasionally my one year old indoor cat seems to display anger by running madly around the house and growling loudly. I can't seem to find a reason why she does this. Could it be that she may want to go outdoors?

Posted by marie quick on 2008-09-06 at 16:12:57

Intrucing the new cat

Our problem is not the resident cat, which is a male about a year and 1/2 old but the new cat, which is a female almost 2 years old. Both cats are fixed. The new cat (Canden) is not accepting the resident cat while the resident cat Cooper) just wants to play with her. No hissing or nothing. Now, when Cooper is not in the room Canden does well with just the two of us. Wehave had the new cat about a 3 days now. Do you have any suggestions on what we can do to help this transition? Cooper is just soo sad by himself as he lost his companion about 4 weeks ago and we feel kind of sorry for him. He just wants a friend. but Canden want do anything but Hiss at him. Help!

Posted by James Busby on 2008-09-07 at 23:00:03

Restless Cat

My kitty Vince becomes restless every single night at 2am, 4am and then again at 6am. He scratches the door, mirrors and walls. He also kind of bawls as he wanders around. Its a studio apartment so its small, but he has ALWAYS been an indoor cat. Its been a year of broken sleep and Im exhausted.

Posted by Marly on 2008-09-08 at 14:25:10

Bites!

I have a cat who I think is the most wonderful creature ever (not that I'm biased :) ) but she bites. So, things I've discovered: - using the water spray doesnt really work. But what I do is spray her bottom when she bites me. At other feisty times, just showing her the bottle is enough to make her abandon the next 'jump and bite'. - she likes to latch on and do the rabbit kicks especially when she's just woken from her sleep - Compromise: I've explained to her that she shouldnt bite me as i have no fur...but if i have a sheet protecting me, it's ok...sort of controlled madness, if you will. it's worked as she leaves me alone and doesnt ambush me anymore, except the 1% of crazytime. Also - the reason why i guess she likes skin more that clothing is because it's not naff...i mean you try sucking your thumb vs. sucking the edge of a sheet. Like I said - she still bites, but things have improved from me getting ambushed, bitten and scratched almost every day to a bite attempt once every 2-3 weeks. Hope this helps :)

Posted by Lima on 2008-09-08 at 20:53:29

Scaredy cat

My cat Nick is so scard of my dog. We have tried putting them near each other to get used to each other. Nick now hides behind furniture to avoid the dog and not only does she not come out he urinates on my carpet behind the couch as well as poops. Any advise on how to get him used to my dog.?

Posted by Sherry Gregory on 2008-09-08 at 21:20:57

BITING AND SWATING MY LEG WHEN I WALK BY HIM

MY MALE TABBY IS 5 YEARS OLD AND HAS RECENTLY STARTED BITING MY HAND WHEN I PET HIM,WHEN I SEE HIS TAIL MOVING OR NOT,THERE IS NO RHYME OR REASON, FOR THAT BEHAVIOR HE STRIKES ME BUT DOESN'T BREAK THE SKIN,HE JUST WARNS ME NOT TO PET HIM ANYMORE,ALSO WHEN HE SITS ON MY LAP IF I MOVE JUST SLIGHTLY HE JUMPS UP AND OFF ME.

Posted by LESLIE on 2008-09-09 at 10:57:10

Play with your cats

I've have my two cats for 4 years now. They are about 5 years old - They are usually very well tempered and behave. But sometimes they decide that I am not giving them the attention they want and they will do things they know they will get trouble for. Cats can be just like children if they don't get their way. I know that they must want something if they are expressing themselves in a bad way. Discipline your cats when they do things you don't want them to do. I use a water bottle and tell them NO. Play with your cats often. Some of the bad behaviors can come from boredom or neglect. Cats are creatures of habit. Routines are best. We have a feeding routine every morning and night and if I'm not there right at feeding time they let me know! Be patient with your cats and if you stick to your guns - the bad behavior ought to stop.

Posted by Stephanie on 2008-09-10 at 12:02:08

indoor cats

For all of yopu that have indoor cats , think again ..A cat is never meant to live in indoors, it leads to neurosis So frankly speaking, take them to a cat shelter or let soneone have them to allow them to have the freedom they deserve Imprisonment drives anyone and everyone crazy Cat and Dogs.Your cat will never like your like Dog and is peeing itself in fear Get a new home for either the cat of the dog Cats that climb up legs . Everytime that the cat does this, pick it up gently and look it straight it the eyes and say loudly "NO" and then put it down again..After a few repitions of this , it will be fine. Pooing in cat tray, but not peeing .. Cats need the pooh taken out before they will pee very often.They have a very acute sense of smell and are 100% super clean..If they are not it is because their owner does not undertsand something and the owner is doing something wrong JR MSc Animal Psychologist

Posted by Jessica on 2008-09-11 at 05:07:27

Care for your cats

Cats are like children as mentioned before. They are a lot of work and require a lot of care. In most cases, you wouldn't return your kid to the shelter if they don't behave so why not get a book about cat behavior or consult your vet to figure out a solution. Most problems require a simple solution such as the litter box. A cat's sense of smell is 100x ours (as mentioned) so what stinks to you is unbearable to them so the solution is to clean the litter box more often. if that does not work maybe try another type of litter. give your cat attention spend time with them. Give your cat attention, talk to them, play with them, if you were to ignore a child it would be considered abuse. It is the same thing for animals.

Posted by Ugene on 2008-09-12 at 11:23:39

Male Cat

I have a male cat I had fixed he still tries to hunch stuff and tries to ride my female cat is that normal?

Posted by Jackie on 2008-09-13 at 14:42:52

mean to other cat

I have an 18 year old cat that is blind. I also have a 3 year male cat, he has become very mean to the older cat, attacking her even while she sleeps...I have tried spraying him with water when I see him sneaking up on her for the attack..but it has done no good. Why is he being so mean?

Posted by Barbara on 2008-09-13 at 21:23:34

Cats SHOULD be indoors!

Saying that cats will go crazy if not allowed outdoors is one of the most ignorant statements I have ever heard! According to The Humane Society of the United States (check their website) it is a myth that cats need to live outdoors! Statistically, cats live longer, healthier lives than do cats allowed to roam outdoors, where they are exposed to cars, dogs, diseases, etc. Do your research..... If you take proper care of your cat, and give it enough attention, it will be just as happy indoors as out. If it is lonely, consider getting a 2nd cat as a companion. And don't give up on changing behaviors too soon; in my experience it takes WEEKS to see a change or have a new pet get used to a resident cat. And they may never be best friends, but will probably learn to tolerate each other.

Posted by HOLLY on 2008-09-14 at 15:27:32

cat poo

my cat has started poo poo outside the litter box all of a sudden what can i do to make her use the litterbox for both pee and poo. She pee in litterbox but won't poo in litterbox she did before what happen. she one and a half now she has changed.

Posted by Patricia Woods on 2008-09-15 at 05:57:28

young cat getting after my other cats

I have 3 cats about 5 years old. In and out cats. Ayear ago some one droped off a beautiful little Manx at the road. All cats are fixed. She is the boss and gets after the other cats. I think they hate her. What can I do. All of them will hunt together but in the house she rules. She likes to go up to them and put her paw on their head and look them right in the eye. they hate it. They never get right down and fight but I,m afraid the older cats might leave. Help!

Posted by Ellen on 2008-09-15 at 10:31:29

Afraid of Dog

My sister has 2 cats and a dog. One cat loves the dog. The other one is afraid of him. I guess it's just the way they are wired. I can't find any other reason for it as the dog, although large, is extremely gentle with the cats and the children.

Posted by elena98 on 2008-09-16 at 15:50:44

My cat bites and scratches

My cat bites and stalks my daughter we have tried walking him but he is not at all mellow. He also wakes us up and my daughter has to carry a spray bottle where ever she goes!! please help

Posted by Big Cat on 2008-09-17 at 10:21:43

Hungry cat?

I have a ten month old cat that I've had since she was six weeks old. She had her first litter of kittens about five weeks ago, and has since started jumping on my counters. I feed her 3-4 times a day, but she always acts like she's starving. How do I keep her off my counter tops?

Posted by Tabitha on 2008-09-21 at 01:54:32

biting cats

I have a beautiful, white, neutered male cat, 3 1/2 years old, that I rescued from an animal shelter when he was 5-weeks old. He seldom makes a sound, occasionally a weak squeak comes out when he's particularly stressed. His problem is that he's been very aggressive, almost from day one. He's like a bully...if I'm sitting on "his" spot on the sofa, he lunges at my arm, biting me until I relinquish "his" spot and chase him away. Only showing him the flyswatter makes him calm down. I'm ready to give him up, because I can't control that particular bad behavior. I know if I give him away, he'll get abused if he treats his new owners the same way he treats me. He also doesn't like strangers visiting "his" home. Visitors are not welcome and get hissed at when they pay attention to him. I've told them, "Just ignore him and pretend he's not here." If they ignore him, he will chase strangers down my hallway and slap and at their ankles. He just doesn't want anyone in "his" home...I'm not sure, but I don't think he even wants ME there. I've had antisocial cats before, but none as bad as this one.

Posted by Sharon Jenkins on 2008-09-21 at 08:48:54

cat trying to kill me.. in Phoeniz

My Cat winds herself around my legs and keep tripping me. I realize she is trying to be friendly but This happens especially if i wake up and go to the bathroom in the middle of the night . Any ideas on how to get her to stop?

Posted by Marlene on 2008-09-22 at 16:53:11

keeping Jack out of my bedroom

I have an alergy to cats and agreed to take this beautiful ragdoll to avoid his being put down - I am taking alergy meds but I would like to keep him out of my bedroom so hims dander is not on the carpeting or he sneaks up on my bed - I would like to keep him out of my sleeping territory as night is when my alergies are most active - I need a space for myself but he needs his space also - I have tried keeping him in the bathroom whick he does not seems to mind but I find this cruel - HELP - patti

Posted by patti on 2008-09-24 at 12:47:43

constipation

My vet said to give my cat laxatone daily. I have given him wet food, no improvement. Thank you.

Posted by julie calabrese on 2008-09-26 at 07:49:30

Misbehaving

I have a 4yr old male inside and outside cat. Recently he does not want to come in the house and when he does come in the house he is doing all kind of things that he is not suppose to do. Like I have a new roommate that moved in about 2 months ago and he is going into her room and going to the bathroom on the bed and floor. Only her room! If he can't get in the room he will go to the bath (number 2) outside the door.

Posted by concern on 2008-10-03 at 12:52:57

my cat dosn't stay in my lap

I have a 3 month old tabby.He is very cute but restless.He doesn't wants to stay in my lap.What to do?

Posted by Aman Yadav on 2008-10-04 at 11:09:30

lola a bengal

lola a bengal when she is in heat she urines all over the place . And she also scratchs at my bedroom door . She was giving to me so I l Lola a bengal she is always urining everywhere when she is in heat.She also scratchs atmy bedroom door all the time . I do not now how old she is .

Posted by carl margo on 2008-10-06 at 13:23:23

Biting Cats-Sharon Jenkins

Reading your posting made me think of our dear Sasha we had to put down last year just a few days after her 17th birthday. She to was a handful from the start when we got her at six weeks old.We were just talking last week about how we had to handle her with ovenmitts.When she got to about ten years she decided she wanted to be a lap kitty.But just with us.No one else could touch her.Just look at her. And she was beautiful! She would sit right by the front door and stretch out and pose. As soon as someone tried to touch her,watch out! You might want to try putting the cat in a bedroom when you have company. Or just make it known that the cat doesn't like to be "handled".We used to joke that "Sasha lets us live here",and she looked at us like "you stupid humans". Good Luck!

Posted by CH-owner of lots of cats, too many on 2008-10-07 at 14:45:35

2 month old kitten with the BITES

someone left a new kitten under our tree, barely had her eyes open and could not eat very well, nursed her to a good eater and too cute, but she has the bites! hands, feet,,leg, she jumps on you like a flying bat! and is relentless, no no,put her down, tap on bum, look in face w/ eye contact nothing, i am afraid to give her away, she is so bad with this, any help would be appreciated....

Posted by sherri on 2008-10-07 at 15:55:38

cat behavior

lmy cat sits at times with his back to me and this behavior is driving me crazy. Can you explain this to me please?

Posted by rita yee on 2008-10-08 at 21:32:43

bad litter habits

My daughter's cat has taken to using her sofa to poop on when she isn't at home! Recently, he started urinating under the sofa, on the floor in one spot. Her cat is over 6 years old and he's shared her with a husband of five years and a son of 3 years. What's up with him all of a sudden?

Posted by Jaent Roider on 2008-10-14 at 17:20:37

Cat Biting while changing litterbox

Kitty was a breeder cat for 2 1/2 years when she was rescued and then spent 8 months in a large adoptive home with 20 other cats. When I first got her she was anti-social and still doesn't like to be held much. But she turned into a loving cat who greets me by flopping over and insisting on a belly rub when I come in the door every day. She loves her ears and chin and sometimes sleeps with me especially if I am sick (then she will only leave me to quick eat or use her box). When I first got her I scooped daily but after two months I decided to completely dump the whole lot into the trash can and pour new litter and as soon as I finished she bite me hard and I bleed. Since then I have always tried to only scoop when she is not around.....now two years later I did it again and she bit my leg and ankle so hard that I was bleeding in several places and my leg swelled up. I yelled loud and strong --bad kitty, very bad kitty several times. I was crying immediately since I was in a lot of pain and I left the bedroom locked with her in it for 30 minutes while I cleaned and flushed my leg with Peroxide, first aid cream and bandages. When I returned she tried to be real friendly but I gently pushed her away and said, bad kitty and refused to accept her love. She calmed down immediately and has been sorry for a day now. I left her alone most of the night due to a social event and the next morning she was ok and I went to work. But when she sniffs my hurt area I respond in a firm voice that she was a very bad kitty and hurt me. Did I do a no-no in dumping the whole box and it set her off being defensive about her territory? I will continue with scooping daily without her in the room and not dumping the whole lot in her presence again. Any other suggestions? If my wound doesn't feel better in another day I will seek medical attention from my doctor but the medicine I am using is very good but the bite caused bruising as well the actual bite areas and deep scratches from the front paws. It was only one very hard bite and claws fully in my foot and ankle. The bite is on the lower leg and got the muscles so walking is hurtful after 24 hours but getting better.

Posted by Joan Culver on 2008-10-15 at 14:55:01

1 yr old female cat

We have a rescue cat that we got at 6 month old. She uses her litter box to urinate, however most times she like to ppop outside her box. If I cathe her in time I place her in the litter box and she does fine.

Posted by Inga on 2008-10-19 at 22:18:52

how do i learn to understand my cat

i want my cat to be nice and loveing and playful and sleep with me at night and i want to understand my cat when it is trying to tell me something but how do i learn how to under stand my cat as much as they under stand me i have a 3 year old female a 1 year old female and a kitten female help

Posted by sadie vallieres on 2008-10-22 at 12:57:16

sasquatch

My son named my cat sasquatch because he is a polydactle and has the biggest front feet you ever saw. He has six toes onboth front feet and five on one of his back feet.he also has dew claws on his back feet. He is 17 mo. old and weighs 18lbs. About 6mo. ago I had to move from pa. to Ind. when my father became ill. Sasquatch likes to go outside and play alot and I was afraid he would run off and try to go back to pa. I tie him out in the yard on a 15ft. light weight chain so he has plenty of room to run. I've had people tell me this is cruel. Will this cause him any harm? He doesn't seem to mind and he lets me know when he wants in the house because he will not go to the bathroom outside he has to have his box. But lately the weather has been turning colder and he doesn't get out as much and has been getting into alot more michief in the house. How can I calm him down more while he is indoors?

Posted by esther on 2008-10-23 at 17:52:18

cat-phoo

I HAVE 2 MALE CATS FOR 5 YEARS. ONE RECENTLY STATED TO POO OUTSIDE THE CAT BOX. TODAY I PURCHASED 6 BOXES WITH 2 DIFFERENT LITTERS. WHAT IS REQUIRED TO CORRECT THE ISSUE? THANK YOU, THE CATS LAS VEGAS NV

Posted by DR. STEPHEN J. HERLIHY on 2008-10-24 at 17:19:37

Kitten is being mean to my older cat

I have a cat whom ive had 12 years, shes quiet and just wants to be left alone, recently a stray cat (Female both) has come to live with us, and she jumps my older cats back and bites every chance she gets why does she do this...she has toys all over the place ive hidden and she....My older cat has been fixed for years, and i have an app. to get the kitten spayed...what can i do to save my poor older cat? (KeeKe)...the kitten will not let her eat or use the litter box...I have been putting kitten in a cage at night but i hate doing this, any advice???

Posted by Linda on 2008-10-27 at 20:55:07

Scared Cat

Three days ago I picked up my daughters cat (Tig) to come live with me and my lonely 3 year old cat. He is afraid of everything. He was fine with me while I was at my daughters but now wants no part of me or my cat. He hisses growls and tries to scratch me. I can't get near him without him howling, hissing or tring to scratch. He does eat and drink. Mostly he stays in the bathroom although the door to the bathroom stays open. How can I change this behavior?

Posted by Angie on 2008-10-31 at 07:37:01

Getting on Table and Counter

Please help. I don't want to get rid of my expensive sphynx male kitty but he keeps getting on the table and counter in search of a table scrap. I try to always keep his bowl full, but this behavior is causing me to want to find him a new home. Is there any solution you can offer?

Posted by kattywaller on 2008-11-05 at 16:33:27

we are being terrorized

Nettie has started some new and horrible behaviors in the past month or so. she is not and never has been allowed in the bedroom at night. so all night long, she has started to howl and tear apart the house. she is constantly "whacking" at stuff and breaking things, she even moves potted plants that weigh several times her own weight. we lay in bed at night and listen to things crashing in the other parts of the house. during the day, she has begun to try to eat people food and is on the counters and table constantly. nothing has changed in her environment or in how she is treated or fed or . . . i am so tired of cleaning up glass, broken pottery, plants, etc... and then there is the "picking up" that has to be done each morning - books, photos, dishes, newspaper, piles of bills, knocked over wastebaskets (no food items are them.) the vet has asked us to try a small dose of valium and it has had no effect whatsoever. any ideas short of making our home "naked" of anything she can move?

Posted by cedar on 2008-11-17 at 19:40:33

Marli

My 6 month old cat Marli is a very well behaved sweet girl! But all the sudden she has started splashing all the water out of her water bowl. She has a double bowl food/water dish and never did this before but for the last week she has. I give her fresh water daily and clean it regularly. I have never really witnessed this but it keeps happening. I can give her fresh water and look an hour or so later and there is no water in the bowl and it is all over the floor! I have not moved the bowl recently and her food is always still in the bowl. If she is playing I can live with it but worry about her having water to drink. Does anyone have any idea why she may have started doing this?

Posted by Nichole on 2008-11-18 at 16:03:45

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